And the winner is . . .

The father was seated in the back, nervously hoping the most valuable player being described at the podium was his daughter. Hearing of the recipient’s generosity of spirit and determined effort, he couldn't help but think of his daughter, but, when the name was announced, it wasn't hers. After the ceremony, however, it was discovered a mistake had been made at the podium, that his daughter had won, but the experience left a rich opportunity for reflecting on the power, for good or ill, of recognition.

This is the time of year when people are lifted up and celebrated for their accomplishments, while others are not. Whether at a graduation or team's closing banquet, such gatherings are filled with both jubilation and disappointment, but they also offer invite us to reflect on the nature of achievement, and the power of recognition.

Finding a healthy balance is difficult. We live in a society obsessed with recognition. It’s common practice now to give a trophy to every player on every team. So, too, we often lift up obvious choices when a more discerning eye might spot a student or player whose efforts are more profound. Through it all, we must ask why do we do what we do in the first place?

We are told to run with perseverance the race that is set before us, and, for each of us, that race may be unique to our circumstances and gifts. The idea of a race, however, quickly conjures up notions of winning and prizes, and that’s when things become cloudy and distorted. Is it about the race, or the prize? Do we do something to be seen or because t's something we feel called to do? Do we give a lot to be seen as a significant member of society, or do we give generously because we believe in the work being done? Do we recognize distinguished service based on the service or some other factor (e.g. generosity, notoriety)? Do we help another in order to be seen as kind and sensitive, or is being kind and sensitive the award?

As schools and seasons come to an end, people gather to reflect on the past year and, yes, recognize people for their achievements. Perhaps such ceremonies can serve as reminders that it isn’t about being recognized as the most valuable player. It’s about being a most valuable player.